Stances, Chances and Aces
That daily grind vibe

As she checked on her e-mail, she finished her last sip from a cup of coffee she made herself. Well sound like a busy day, but is it? Ehh, not so much. But for her, the word ‘busy’ will never resonate with her personality. For her there seems to be always a lot of spare time.There are no ‘too busy’ for her as she constantly challenge every step of her way up. Then, she prepared herself for the day, grabbed her bag and left.
Most of us the week is divided into two. Weekdays, the busy days where life happens. Weekends, the perfect time to binge watch or share quality time with our loved ones. Lucky for those people who can have some quality time at their busy day.
As a student, she realized that her role is like everybody else. There are people above her who she hope she could look up to but not all of them. People look for title that make them a part of something, then think of how can I be different than anybody else? And it goes and it goes on and on like a cycle. The same questions goes when we try to be close with somebody, we see the difference and who we are to them as who they are to us. Because if you know where you stand on someone’s life you know the right way to communicate with them, it makes life easier.
A person can never stand alone, we are social animals.
There is a probability that you could live alone with food and other primary resources you need. But, there’s a much higher probability that you need somebody —and somebody needs you. We have the eager to help people, even if you live alone eventually you’d meet people and you’d probably want to help those who you think are in need, it’s automatic. But here’s the thing, we interact with each other and we don’t realize that we are taking chances. When we were asking a simple question or asking for a favor to somebody, there’s a chance those actions might change the person’s perspective about you in their life. It changes where you stand in the other person’s life.
It’s uncontrollable how they think of us. It never will, even if you tried to, you would waste a ton of time. Humans depends on each other but we also have mind of our own. We do not control each other that way. Generally speaking, the “outside” could control our “inside” and it is just a matter of time to know which side have a greater effect on our actions. But if we are able to control both the outside and our inside, that’s the time when we know that people mind don’t quite matter, our action do. From there we could take another chance to challenge our beliefs and ace another obstacle.
For the people who just ran out of the window to take on her day, they knew their stances. Everyday, they take chances and shows up no matter what. Whether their plans worked out or didn’t, they gained more confidence day by day.
