Security is a product of insecurities.

Humans have several needs demanding satisfaction. There are needs originated either by physical and natural desires or by factors making an impact on their mood.

Security is a product of factors. It is not actually considered to be natural action. It is a reaction. A reaction usually against what it is threatened by. Humankind had been hunting for centuries, in order to cover dietary needs and to protect themselves from creatures invading to their territory. Furthermore, people were aware of people's imperialistic tension. In ancient years, people were eager to demonstrate their power and impose "order" to weaker peoples. Therefore, security is a need against people's instinctive arrogance. As a result, people's insecurities cause negative impact on their attitude.

Security is a reaction to induce balance. In the first place, even in social relationships, people do not ask for security, unless they have been hurt. That is why the emotion of love is considered to ensure security. First signs of creating erotic and sexual bonds are seemed to be reciprocal. Sharing moments with people, with whom have been in love with can affect the whole way of thinking. The whole conditioning. In recent years, security is a privilege that no one can enjoy, without a sacrifice. Society is facing suspicion. People cannot be satisfied. We are comfortable by cheating and destroying friendships and relationships, enabling our egotism as the primary priority. Insecurities have been produced and reproduced, because of the current role-models promoted by social media.

So, we are not convenient watching our reflection in the mirror. We are chasing the perfection been related to our appearance. The promoted edition and not the ethical one. We cannot trust easily. We cannot share easily, even if they have the need to. That is why security is a need anymore and not a feeling taken for granted.


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