wow…these cats seem so mechanical…I’ve had numerous occasions where my lover went at the penis like a rabid dog…it’s uncomfortable…it’s about consideration and as Bridget indicated…it’s the before (the care for your lover, the conversation about what you are both into, etc) that is/may be tantamount to everyone having a pleasurable experience. When I turned sixteen my pops told me: “Son, if you want to keep your woman, learn how to lick pussy with passion, and if you haven’t experienced it yet, I can arrange it”…yeah my pops was cut from a different cloth. I must say that it is definitely a pre-requisite for me, if I can’t taste her, I am very reluctant to engage in coitus, but hey, I am a dude :)