Cosette Ubik
Nov 4 · 1 min read

I don’t think this makes you a prude. Why did you break up anyway?

Love and sex is closely aligned with addiction. For arguments sake, lets say you were addicted to your lover, you have broken this habit — so why would you go back again? Like quitting smoking — is it a good idea to have another cigarette? No, most people find they are addicted again, and would have to go through the process of quitting again.

Are you sure your ex isn’t trying to get you back? Or is he testing your boundaries? Or perhaps doesn’t have your best interests at heart?

And trying to argue yourself out of your feelings by being concerned you have a monogamy gene is just screwing with your mind. Listen to your instincts.

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