The Overated Experience

Closure, apart from being an absolute waste of time and an indulgence of the ego, is in fact a fool’s pity party. All it really serves is giving you an opportunity to indulge in something you have already tried and tested that isn’t good for you.

Sure, you’re feeling hurt, devalued, misunderstood…so why go back to the person whose actions, or lack of, made you feel so inadequate. What makes you think they will spare you the decency of an explanation now? You might actually find that it’s been so long, they don’t even know what you’re refering to, even though all your chewing over it has caused you sleepless nights. They might not have given you a moment’s thought since, and you bringing something so ‘trivial’ up again seems all but sad to them, and comical to the wicked.

But it seems so unfair. You probably want to have the last word. Perhaps, you are feeling so good about yourself now, you think they must want to kick themselves silly if they catch a glimpse of you now. All is vanity! Believe me, the fact that you think that means you’re still utterly vulnerable to their manipulation and lack self esteem, so you still crave their validation…

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