Happiness, Friends and Companions
Human is the best creation of God. By nature, Humans are the social creature. They always need some friends and companions in their life for interaction. Some have fewer friends and some have more friends. It’s a matter of human nature how he deals with others.
“Be the reason someone smiles. Be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people.”
It’s important that what thoughts you are feeding into your mind because your thoughts create your belief and experiences. You have positive thoughts and you have negative ones too. Nurture your mind with positive thoughts: kindness, empathy, compassion, peace, love, joy, humility, generosity, etc. The more you feed your mind with positive thoughts, the more you can attract great things into your life
If you want to be happy in your life, try to think always positive about our self and about others. If you think negative about yourself then this effect you but if you think negative about others it affects you, the person and the other persons who have a connection with that persons.
I read a book of “How to Win Friends & Influence People” by Dale Carnegie. In his book, he described some habit and action under tilted “Do This And You’ll Be Welcome Anywhere”. I want to discuss some of the outcomes I learned from this. We should always give respect to others and talk them politely and gently.
As someone says “Give Respect, Take Respect”. If you do this, people will love you and this makes you happy. This habit also helps you to make more friends as people want to be a friend with you. On the other hand, if you don’t do this or used the harsh word, didn’t give respect to others and peoples will also disrespect you and all this make you unhappy.
You will also lose the number your friends. We can win some one attention time and cooperation by showing interest in him. In his book, Dale gave some personal examples. How these habits help you in your life. I will add one example; “he wrote, years ago, I conducted a course in fiction writing at the Brooklyn, Institute of Arts and Sciences, and we wanted distinguished and busy authors to come to Brooklyn and give us the benefit of their experiences. So we wrote them, saying we admired their work and were deeply interested in getting their advice and learning the secrets of their success and each of these letters was signed by about a hundred and fifty students. They loved that. So they left their homes and travelled to Brooklyn to give us a helping hand.
I inspired from Dale Carnegie words. I experienced his word in my life. I spend some time with others by talking with them gently and politely. Gave them good words and small happiness by completed their small wishes and work. Some funny thing happens: when I contact with my friends to whom I didn’t contact for a long time. I asked him about his health. Then to start the conversation, I asked him about his current plans and future plans. I consistently asking questions about him and did not say anything what I am doing, why I contact him and why I am asking only about himself. This thing confused him and after few minutes, he asked, “bro, what’s the matter is? Are you alright? (And my one friend asked, “Bro, what you want? Come to the point.)
I smiled and said nothing brother. I think it’s better to spend some time with friends, but he and my other friends to whom I contact after a long period of time, are not agreed with me.
Its human nature but they were happy and we did a lot of joyful conversation. In our busy routine life, we did not have enough time to meet with friends or even relatives. At least, we should try to spread happiness by only doing conversation with someone. People feel relaxed and happy when someone asked about them.