Don’t talk; you are listened!

When Umbert is in Paris, he often goes to some fascinating talks about his favorite subjects: travel, technology, startups, emotional intelligence and many more.

Sometimes, he doesn’t understand everything, especially when it is very technical.

When dining with friends, after several nights out, he doesn’t always know what to say or answer, because he ’s tired.

Sometimes you start talking, and you may notice that your audience is not interested in what you are saying.

Alternatively, you’ve just realized that what you’ve said is so stupid!

Don’t talk; you are listened!

The silence is sometimes better …

“The silence is…


How to behave at the restaurant like a gentleman

Umbert loves to go to the restaurant. He is a gourmet, and every month, he gives you his choices for the best places. You can check Umbert Weekends in Paris.

To behave correctly at the restaurant is not a protocol matter, but part of the Art-de-Vivre and new etiquette.

Umbert helps you about How to behave at the restaurant like a gentleman.

Benefits of this coaching :

  • Best methodology to become irresistible.
  • An innovative technique to unleash your charisma.
  • Learn the new etiquette &Â manners.
  • A better lifestyle.

« The gastronomy is an incredible source of happiness” Pierre Hermé, famous…


Don’t go to the restaurant on a 1st date!

Today Umbert advises his friend, Alexis, visiting Paris from Montecito in California, about dating.

Alexis thinks that French girls are tough regarding the dates; that’s why he looks for any original ideas.

The two friends think that the more original the place will be, the better the chances Alexis will have.

They don’t want to look like random guys going in a casual restaurant.

They want something new, unexpected, creating a surprise them so the girl will have a crushon Alexis.

That’s why Umbert advised Alexis to not go to the restaurant on a 1st date!

Benefits of this coaching…


How to introduce yourself

Umbert is invited to a party with his friend Diane in a gorgeous Haussmann apartment in Paris.

Diane friends know the good manners and how to behave.

To present oneself is the first act of interaction with the other guests.

The first impression being the one that counts the most, Umbert reminds you of the basic rules of the New Etiquette and manners.

Benefits of this coaching :

  • Best methodology to become irresistible.
  • An innovative technique to unleash your charisma.
  • Learn the new etiquette &Â manners.
  • A better lifestyle.

“Politeness is a mark of respect: nature gives it, education increases…


Don’t dress like a rock star, especially for a date

Umbert is always elegant, or casual-chic, even when he plays sports.

Why ? Because, most of the time, people judge others on their first impression, especially in Asia.

Even if you don’t care about your appearance, make an effort, it is essential.

The professional category, the age, the way of life, are essential in man fashion, and each person will choose his style.

It is also a proof of respect for others.

However, there are basics to respect to not look old-fashioned, on any occasion. Don’t dress like a rock star, especially for a date.

Benefits of this coaching :


10 Must do on how to behave at the theater or the opera

When Umbert and his friends go to the theater or the opera, they know that they have to be chic and respect the New Etiquette so everybody can enjoy the show.

It is politeness due to the actors. They‘ve done much difficult work before to be on stage that night, so you have to respect them.

« The world is a play; each of us must learn how to play his role. », Palladas, Greek poet.

Benefits of this coaching :

  • Best methodology to become irresistible.
  • An innovative technique to unleash your charisma.
  • Learn the new etiquette & manners.
  • A…

How to eat some dishes properly

When Umbert goes to the restaurant with his friends, they like to discover new dishes and try any new experiences.

For example, he likes to go to The Ritz, and meet the famous chefs from the Escoffier School. This is his favorite place in Paris.

However, sometimes some dishes require different utensils, especially in France.

Here is the list to know How to eat some dishes properly.

“Whoever does not eat at the table eats in the barn,” French proverb.

  • Soup: only with a spoon. You can now finish the plate by leaning backward and slightly to the right (for…

15.5 Dos to make people love you

Why 12.5 and not 15?

Making friends, or acquaintances is going out of your comfort zone.

When Umbert meets acquaintances or new people, he knows that the warm tone of his voice is as important as his laugh and smile.

Umbert wants to share with you 15.5 Dos to make people love you.

“It’s sometimes in the eyes, in a smile, that the words we never knew how to say are hidden,” Yves Duteil, French composer.

1) Introduce your self

Regarding this part, you can read my article How to introduce yourself.

2) Compliment

Immediately find something in their behavior or dress that you can emphasize…


A proper way to talk to seduce everybody

Whether in Paris or traveling, Umbert respects the New Etiquette codes of each country.

An essential rule exists everywhere: to avoid vulgar words and vulgarity in general.

A good orator has considerable power, and if you know how to talk, you will seduce your audience.

There are many events nowadays where you can mingle with others. Follow that advice to attract most of the people.

“Everything is understood except vulgarity,» Louis Pelletier-Dlamini

1) The basics

When he meets a friend or an acquaintance, Umbert always tries to be warm and respectful.

Articulate, be audible, do not speak too fast or too slow, and…


How to be a winner on the first date

Umbert’s friend Alexandre looks for a fiancée and asks for advice on How to be a winner on the first date if he meets a pretty girl, and asks her for a date.

Umbert is a man to whom his friends like to confess. Politeness and friendship have a rule: never tell another person the confidences made by a friend.

Today he meets Alexandre at the Café de Flore in Paris.

Umbert explains that pretty girls are difficult to seduce, and they pay attention to the etiquette and good manners, so it is important to follow his advice.

After meeting…

Umbert De Paris

Umbert De Paris helps men 👔 who want to know how to behave in Paris 👌🇫🇷. He advises them on etiquette 👨‍🎓, manners 🤵, fashion 👕, date and lifestyle.

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