The best

You can’t get the best if you decide treat it like the second best. All best people always know their worth.

This is inspired by the hi-five my two guy friends gave each other during dinner for didn’t have to buy any flowers for the last Valentine. Sitting there, cool as a cucumber since I’m always one of the boys, I can’t help but feeling a wee sad for them. I thought being an a-hole to your date is no longer cool post high school. I can’t deny that I’ve been through the phrase of lusting over bad-boys, but as time goes by, along the way with the process of improving myself, I learned about self-worth.

It’s not arrogant to require people to treat you the way you deserve to be treated, it calls self-respect. I guess after seeing a lot of relationships where there’s a “superiors” one and a clingy one, somehow it becomes cool to be aloof and all I-don’t-care. Well, I call that bullshit. It’s not cool to treat your other half like shit! Speaking from my own experience, I’m generally quite caring once I’m with someone, and it did happen to me when people take it as clingy. You know what, I don’t care, you pull an a-hole with me and I drop you, simple at that. And I’m sure it goes for most of people who has a sense of dignity too.

So yea, what do I know right? But I do know that you get what you pay for, so if you’re insecure enough to have to treat other like crap to make you feel better, only real crap will linger. The best way to sort people out is by treating them with kindness and it’s up to them to prove their worth to you. Once they prove you otherwise? Well, the withdrawal of yourself will be the best punishment for them.

You get what you get when you go for it, amiright?