‘I am no longer myself’

UNICRI, Melania Dalla Costa and Dimitri Dimitracacos: a campaign for the elimination of violence against women

I live in an infinity of possibilities… The blue of the sky and the warmth of a smile… I embrace the world and the world embraces me…

According to the World Health Organization, 1 in 3 (35%) of women worldwide have experienced either physical and/or sexual violence in their lifetime. Globally, women and girls experience rape, sexual violence, and abuse in times of peace or war. Rape is a pervasive phenomenon which is often ignored or accepted by communities.

Melania Dalla Costa said, “I am honoured to take part in this campaign, because all I want is to help those who are suffering with all my heart and all my strength. We must not forget the Mirabal sisters, the three activists who opposed the dictatorship in the Dominican Republic and were assassinated on 25 November 1960. To me, this campaign is the continuation of the path that I started with “Unfinished Dreams”, a movie on violence against women that I produced and in which I played the role of the main character. The campaign with UNICRI wants to give voice to the victims of sexual violence. It aims at raising awareness of this hideous crime and remind everybody that the foundation of any relationship is respect. From my perspective, the essence of being human is to help the most vulnerable ones and I am happy that I have contributed to the mission of UNICRI. Violence against women has many faces: physical violence and rape, not to mention psychological violence. Every day, we, as women, have to fight to demonstrate that we are able to work, we are strong, we can have a family and raise children. But we also have the right to be women, including being fragile as every human being could be.

Dimitri Dimitracacos explained, “I decided to participate in this campaign to show the harsh reality of those who suffer abuses. As a photographer, my past experience with the Roma and Sinti people and the migrants in Europe has made the difference: images are like a cry for help and a powerful means to show the violence and injustice around us. The campaign with UNICRI and Melania is to express the suffering of the victims of sexual violence: a trauma that can profoundly change a person, the trust in others and the hopes for the future. The campaign is also aiming at highlighting the importance of healing the wounds. This can be done when the society is able to prevent, respond and help victims escape from the spiral of fear.”

According to the Director of UNICRI, Bettina Tucci Bartsiotas, “A radical cultural change is needed to eliminate violence against women. In the era of innovation and technological advances, millions of women are still experiencing barbaric abuses. All too often they are surrounded by silence, stigma and exclusion. We must do more to stop systematic sexual violence as a weapon of war. But even in the most developed countries, essential services are lacking: there are no centres to support and protect victims and to give counselling to people with violent inclinations in order to prevent the escalation of their violence. This campaign is a tribute to the victims and it describes a painful process that leads to the destruction of an identity. An identity that can reborn through the strength that only solidarity and help can generate. The campaign is also launching a strong message to violent people: their abuses are a form of weakness, a denial of our human nature.”

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Countering gender-based violence, reducing the vulnerability factors and empowering women and girls have always been at the forefront of UNICRI’s work.

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Countering gender-based violence, reducing the vulnerability factors and empowering women and girls have always been at the forefront of UNICRI’s work.