The Interested Challenge
I have experienced that being interesting in others makes you special in a very efficient way.Firstly,one thing is simple always be a good listener so how can a person be a good listener ? first we must take interest and converse with others about their life and what are their plans ,ask them about their work and most importantly their interests only then they will be triggered about you and so you will become interesting for them gradually.I think that book describes the secret of friendship and how to be interesting person and this book explains that attention is very important for every human being so when you are interested in someone’s work or his life you are actually giving your full attention and time now that makes you familiar with that person and he begins to think of you as his confidante.A person can only be interesting if he cares to talk about others problems rather than being a narcissist so when you come out from being self involved to socially involved you become an interesting person.
Now i was travelling recently from Islamabad to Faisalabad,i was in bus and a person besides me so i started the conversation keeping the project assignment in mind and i initiated talk and asked him about his work,experience,company and his life at first he was being reserved but then he noticed that i eagerly wants to know about his interests and achievements so in few minutes he was talking with me frankly about his job and management of the company and moreover he even started to ask me about my life the same things,so that is how you become familiar when you align with the person’s interest.
