The Interested Challenge.

Usman Farooq
Jul 28, 2017 · 3 min read

Really, the interested challenge is really interested. Everybody should try the challenge.

The key points of book: “How to win friend and influence people” are:

· Become genuinely interested in other people.

· Smile

· Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

· Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

· Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.

· Make the other person feel important — and do it sincerely.

Lesson

After reading this book I thought that peoples are more interested in you if you are ask question according someone thinking and interest. Its a natural property of every person. Always call to someone from his NAME because it is wonderful music to every one it feels them happy. It feels the importance to someone. We can do this if we know someone’s interest and having a good listening power. Also smiling, smiling is also a powerful tool to impress someone. Always smile so that others can feel happy.

When in interviews, build rapport with your potential employer by demonstrating a genuine interest in the person and his or her organization. Everyone loves to have other people interested in them, and like to hire such people.

Secondly, I experienced this work with my friends. And I experienced that everyone wants someone who listen me specially and response me about my discussion.When I asked from them about them self, initially they behave very awkward and try to hide their feelings, with spending of time they response me and I thought that “they got a person who knows solution of every problem.” and start telling about every thing which they want to hide.I asked them about their health, weekly and yearly plannings and specially about their worries.They are really amuse from my discussion and tell me about future and also consult me.

For example:

One friend said that “Thank you yarr meri parshini khatam krny k liy.”

And second friend said “ i will do nation trial of Kabadi after two or three month.

At the end, i just want to say that talk to someone feeling is very important because it creates the heart to heart connection and enhance the love between them. Its very important because it makes them happy and get rid them from worries. Everyone should adopt this.

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