
Binary oppositions are the lifeline of our universe. One cannot exist without the other. Success and failure, life and death — two important binary oppositions we seem to neglect and least appreciate. Death we seem to neglect, something that only happens to others, and life, which we least appreciate and feel least connected to. We’re so concerned about reaching the destination rather than enjoying the journey that we end up not even realising the beauty of this binary cosmos.
I like going into the mountains as it is a gentle reminder of this beautiful binary. Life for locals is such a success being alive the next day. Each day is a blessing which is truly valued and cherished. They are aware of the risks that come with living a harsh life, and this realisation is the source of their happiness, hospitality, and respect for everyone.
Sitting on top of Duikar, Karimabad with an amazing landscape and the sun rising across the mountains, I noticed the grass protruding out of the hard mountain soil. An appropriate symbol of persistence, of struggle and eventual success.
The thing about climbing mountains is that it teaches so much about yourself and what we as singular human beings are capable of. We are capable of so much more than we are either told to be or believe to be.
Trekking up to the basecamp of Rakaposhi recently, a friend of mine who had never trekked in his life was a prime example of being able to accomplish something he thought he would never be able to. Even when he felt his legs would fall apart, when he felt he would be out of breath when he felt he was about to fall — he did quite a few times, but he got up again and again. And one small step at a time, he did what he thought was impossible.
He embodied the art of not giving up.

I believe we’re all capable of being more loving, honest, friendly, caring, forgiving than we think we are. This world is filled with wonder, it is up to us to love it back as much as it loves us.
