Are you just along for the ride?
There’s a reason why the pilot asks us to “sit back, relax, and enjoy the flight.” You bought the ticket, showed up and let others do the work.
It’s so comforting to strap into a ride at an amusement park. It might sound and feel scary but all the emotions are pre-planned and the outcome is pretty much set in stone.
Everything changes when you drive yourself. You have to choose the route, emotions happen during the ride and you own the outcome.
So, is your life about being along for the ride? Or, are you driving yourself? If not, when is your turn?