Will you be missed?
Will people notice when you disappear?
The current wave of being noticed is about being loud. Argumentative. Opinionated.
Others use drama and shame to get noticed.
You can also annoy people, be visible, interrupt their day. Bully, create a scandal, become a brand nobody wants to hear of except the extreme fans.
Or you could be the one we will miss.
It takes patience, emotional work, looking for opportunities. It’s not easy, it doesn’t get you to your goal quickly, not many people do it. But it’s the only way to be really seen and it’s worth your time and effort.