11 Rules that will make you wiser

Let life flow…

Life is full of surprises and wake up each day looking forward for a different experience. Think of a scenario where everything is under control and you know exactly what will happen next. Isn’t that a boring life to deal with? Survive the unexpected with all your heart and spread love to those accidental occasions in life. Let’s deal with things rather than controlling them.

You can’t be everyone’s favourite…

Not everyone will be able to love your uniqueness and accept you with all those of your flavourful character. But that is okay. Also no one is bound to love you because you love them. You have your personal favourite people and not so comfortable people and a bunch whom you are indifferent to. That doesn’t mean that they are good for nothing either. So take in the differences, understand individuality and accept the fact that it is okay to be in someone’s hatebook, that doesn’t make you BAD. You still glow with your inner beauty.

Make mistakes…

You are not a machine which is processed to make correct decisions and do correct actions, you are a human being and things go out of hand at times. But that is absolutely fine and worth it. Each time you make a mistake, you give yourself a chance to concentrate more and be patient with life. Getting upset with your mistakes might be a bothering issue but if you are willing to try hard and not let it go just like that, then real lessons of life confronts you there.Be kind to you when you make a mistake, also most importantly be ready to accept mistakes done by others too.

Accept people as they are…

Each person is unique as their actions. People who attempt things that is not under your comfort zone or your level of understanding is not necessarily bad people. You do not have to waste energy by spreading hatred, just because certain actions or certain people upset you, rather embrace the individuality. Respect others as you respect yourself, for everyone has their own incredible stories, that deserve to be acknowledged.

Be responsible for your day…

Be vigilant to take the responsibilities and be answerable to your actions. You are a powerhouse full of life and you are solely responsible for everything that comes to you- good or bad. How much ever you attach tags of happiness or anger or sadness on the other person, that is not going to work. The same way you create your halo, you create the negativity as well. So the next time you have a bitter day, remember it is you who are responsible not the other person, so try to make it better.

Deal with it…

Like you can’t control things, be ready to accept a negative bash with all maturity and elegance. Each day is different and things are usually fine and good, but what if something goes wrong? Face it, deal with it and handle it like weakness will think twice before approaching you next time.

Give it a try…

Try not to turn your face to those abrupt “bad or negative circumstances”. It gives you immense strength to fight those situations and grab maximum out of it, than just avoiding them and let go of it. Some of the opportunities are worth taking risks and the other opportunities will leave you with some of the most important lessons of life

Believe in your capabilities…

Believe in yourself. You cannot seek aid from anyone else at times, but you. Take good care of yourself and understand your capabilities to stand for yourself. Do not wind your problems onto someone else’s bag and let them sort it out for you. You are capable of doing magic with your life.

Embrace change…

Like someone said wisely, “change is inevitable.” Look forward for changes in life and make sure it is for good. Don’t let you sit and sink on to the past and be cranky with yourself. Try to come out of the cocoon and let life make a twist for better. Create your own funny and thoughtful resolutions and try amending it with each day and see how life glides happily.

Do not interfere…

You don’t have to interfere in other people’s life. Interfering is different and helping them is different. When you see clearly someone is in need of a soothing hand, it is perfectly fine to lend them help. But otherwise it is not ideal to get into someone else’s life and deal with it for them. Others are capable the same way you are. They are the perfect souls to deal with their own issues. Again embrace the individuality.

Be flexible..

Be like a tender plant that is flexible and not like the rigid tree that refuses to sway with the wind. There are multiple solutions to every issue you face, search for them and if the ideal situation comes from a person whom you are not comfortable with, be flexible to accept it. It is not only your thoughts that are best, but look for amazing souls and have a heart to absorb different opinions.