Thank you, Amy! Many gems here. Your wisdom is the sacred bag of raw garlic to don in the face of those enthusiasm-and-confidence-sucking vampires who confront us every day. An explanation is something we never owe to anybody. It’s not really anyone’s business and we don’t require their permission, much as they’d like us to think we did. A true supporter will be happy for you simply because you’re happy you did what you did.