VanessaAWhat could have been, but never was…I sit here thinking that on this night four years ago, we were together with our friends and family, celebrating at our rehearsal dinner…Jan 191Jan 191
VanessaAJust a short chapter…Tomorrow would have been my wedding anniversary. Four years. Reading or hearing about different women who left their abusive husbands after…Jan 18Jan 18
VanessaAThanksgiving with a Helpful NarcissistIt was my second year living with my husband in Madrid. November had arrived, and he suggested that I invite my co-workers for a…Dec 13, 2023Dec 13, 2023
VanessaACultural Differences with a NarcissistMy ex-husband was from Spain. I met him in Texas while he was working for a teacher exchange program. Looking back, what drew me in was…Dec 12, 20231Dec 12, 20231
VanessaABirthdays with NarcissistsThere was always just something off, a feeling that either what I was doing was wrong or it was a stupid idea. When you celebrate a…Dec 8, 20231Dec 8, 20231
VanessaAIt just never mattered…There was something so empty, so desolate in those words, in those gestures that killed me every time. I wanted to matter, I wanted to mean…Dec 8, 20231Dec 8, 20231