How Your Self-Fulfilling Prophecies Are Keeping You Stuck

Vanessa Rende
Nov 6 · 6 min read

At the end of the day when you look back at all the shit you went through and realize it was all a choice, YOUR CHOICES, one of the most paralyzing things you endure is forgiving yourself.

There is no other feeling quite like the heart-sinking, stomach-dropping, and back-stabbing throb of realizing that you did all of it to yourself, and you can’t go back and change…

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