It seems every single change Okcupid makes is to get people to spend money.

I know from my own experience that the opposite is extremely true, and it’s usually visiting each other several times that gets more shy people to start talking.

This is no different than the search options one day no longer giving all hits, only a select few. It’s incredibly obvious to someone like me, who only dates vegans. I’ll search for vegans, and all of the filters come up with the same dozen or so people. But then I’ll spend money on a boost…low and behold, I’m seeing tons of people who are vegan that don’t show up when I search. People who are WAY better matches.

I’m so done with OkCupid.