For the longest I forgot about that freedom to decline “doing good” because it was too closely equated with being a “good person” in my mind.

Thank you Lidija Hilje for this refreshing piece!

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    Vermul Gboluwatife Pewee

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    Forsaking the idea that someday, I will blossom into a wholesome and perfected version of myself that's then worth loving. This journey alone is mesmerizing.