Falling in love again…

At this moment your mind says, It won’t be this perfect ever, you won’t be able to love anyone ever again. He was the love of your life and you can’t imagine loving someone else or having someone else to love you again.

This is not because you lack self esteem. You know you love with all your abilities . Stop doubting your self worth. Remember how awesome you are and one day someone is going to fall for you again, someone will want to be with you again. It is just you have forgotten how to feel love and affection.

You don’t feel butterflies easily these days, those sunsets and raindrops which used to make you happy are failed to do their job. It is all dull where it used to be sunny. That ringtone which used to make you go crazy with joy , you are not going to hear it any longer. You have forgotten texting someone till late night , staying awake all night to meet someone next day. The part of your which was ready to give all of yours to someone else is missing somewhere. It is not possible to be emotionally naked with someone. The real you who was not afraid to put all your imperfections in front of that special someone is absent now. You wonder if it’s going to be absent forever….

The darkness and emptiness is not going to last forever, it is not a indication of broken you, it is your heart asking for a time to heal. Your broken heart now know people can be cruel and they can stop loving you in a night. next time you need to remeber things you have learnt.

Before you fall in love again you will have to erase your idea of being in love, you will have to let go of particular mental mould you forced into you. Let that idea of love die. It will be different with other person who is going to change your life all again. Stop waiting for the love in a specific predetermined form and you will be surprised with who it happens. Love will feel the same again but in a new completely different manner. It is perfectly natural you will try to find the person with same personality traits, but every individual is different you are going to fall for new person with new personality, he will awake a monster within you again. He will help you find your ability to love multiple people who are different and awesome in their own way. He is going to smell differently from the one before. Aromas evoke some of the strongest feelings within us, but learn to adore it. He’s going to resemble the one before in ways that make you uncomfortable sometimes. But there is nothing to feel ashamed because similar qualities exists everywhere.

He will know all your flaws but don’t be afraid this is what makes it real.He is going to make you laugh again. It is going to be scary to fall in love again but love makes your life worth living. He will make you follow your dreams and passion, there is going to be a constant support on which you can rely blindly. Let him come in and make all the repairs.

But the truth is you will find the love once you will be happy without it. once you stop searching for it. When your mind and your spirit will be ready for it.You will be able to fall in love again once you will be able to give it away without any expectations.