I’m 72 and I too don’t have my shit together.
I’ve boiled it down to paying my bills, keeping my car running, a having my house in some semblance of order.
It’s been years and I have found that the time I spend doing these things is how I seem to find a lot of time for fun.
I had to learn how to disallow those people that pushed me and allowed happiness to be my guide in my actions, as much as possible.
My grandson has all of what you are dealing with a a lot of what he faces this a overwhelms his life
I have suggested washing a few Windows before he dives into solving an ongoing problem.
After a few glass panes he call me.
We laugh, he returns to his windows and I go to get the oil Changed in my car.
In the end many of us don’t have our shit together.
Relax tootsie, in the greater scheme of things you are the embodiment of greatness.
‘ One cuts wood and carries wood
Both before and after
Rock on with a happy heart.
The only thing we can count on is change and ain’t that the truth.