Vienna De Vega
Jul 30, 2017 · 1 min read

Check this, insecure person:

“Love doesn’t take much to being stuffed into forms, which is what everybody’s fantasies and imaginings are: custom-built plans for a constructed individual they’ve created to solve all their problems.”

The quote is from The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W Hardy. Though they’re talking about how to grow past the insecurity of jealousy in open/polyamorous relationships, their words equally apply to dumping your insecurities onto your significant other and making it their problem in any type of relationship.

Vienna De Vega

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Scorpio moon woman. Resident of the 8th zodiac house of sex, lust and intimacy. Venture with me down the erotic highway of my mind.

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