It’s cool to read you thinking out loud on Medium, and that you feel comfortable and safe enough to freely and openly do that, Taryn.
In that vein, allow me to ask for clarity’s sake, how you define being sexual with women vs having sex with women. Of course I can use my imagination, experience and knowledge but that’s as pertains primarily to me. And it can be a fine line. Btw, if you prefer not to respond on this, I totally understood.