Vienna De Vega
May 8, 2018 · 1 min read

This is overall a funny, wonderfully written story, wryly told, Maria. Only I respectfully agree to disagree on this one point. I know you’re pissed but Paul doesn’t have responsibility over your feelings. You and only you have that. Choosing how to respond to his behavior when it didn’t live up to your expectations. (Those dang expectations will take us down the rabbit hole of disappointment faster than fuck. And I sure don’t want to be stuck down there.)

He — or any guy you encounter — has the responsibility to have agency over how he handles himself in stepping out into the world of relationships. That’s really it and the rest is your agency over how you respond.

Vienna De Vega

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Scorpio moon woman. Resident of the 8th zodiac house of sex, lust and intimacy. Venture with me down the erotic highway of my mind.

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