The White Canadian Tila Tequila #NicoleArbour

If this is the path you are choosing Nicole, remember with every video, tweet, FB status update, etc. you post, it is on the internet forever.

I do not have a problem with offensive humor. Personally I feel that there is a time and a place for certain jokes, and that there is a difference between a person who is going the “Joan Rivers” route with their comedy and a person who’s group of friends has the same offensive sense of humor as they do and is overheard and taken out of context.

You are making a choice as a comedian. We all make choices, and there are consequences to those choices. It is not a matter of whether or not you want those consequences to happen, because you cannot control that.

You can, however, chose how you deal with the consequences of your choices, your actions, and your words.

If you want to disable likes and comments on your videos, that is your choice, but people will find a way to address you, only completely stupid people would call those who find another way to respond to you “trolls” or “stalkers”, and you do not strike me as being completely stupid.

You strike me as a comedian who has not found their own voice yet so instead is choosing to try to be the Canadian Jenna Marbles.

If you don’t watch your step, you WILL become the white Canadian Tila Tequila. You show far too many symptoms that you already are, unfortunately.

If I were you I would not just post an offensive video about obesity and leave it at that.

I would make a video addressing the fact that the concept of “Hollywood Size Zero” is just as offensive, and is the opposite side of the coin. Shame those who encourage people to starve themselves so that they can get more jobs or more attention. Shame those who have spread this horrible belief into other countries and cultures. Call out “thinspiration” websites and those who think anorexia is a life style and not a form of self-mutilation and self-harm, just like binge eating and ignoring your doctor’s advice to eat healthier and exercise

is self-harm. Call out yourself for the fact that videos exactly like your “Dear Fat People” video encourage anorexics into thinking they are doing the right thing and that the rest of the world has the problem.

Call out those who have high metabolisms and eat tons of crap and drink oceans of coffee. Rory and Lorilai Gilmore from “the Gilmore Girls” being a more recognizable example of this. Call out the fashion industry for perpetuating impossible and deadly standards of beauty. Tell the world why expecting people to be super skinny is just as offensive and irresponsible as expecting them NOT to be super sized.