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Opinions. Everyone has one. Whatever we do, everyone else has comment regarding what you’re doing. Most of the time, opinions shows both sides of the spectrum with one end showing full support of what you’re going to do while the other continues to discourage. It’s a confusing time to live in.
We often feel judged. We keep on trying to be the best version of ourselves but somehow it feels like we are never enough. Somebody else is doing it better than me. It feels like the society that we live in is waiting for the next mistake that we’ll make. It’s hard to overcome this thoughts but we have to acknowledge that this shouldn’t be like this.
Everyone has an opinion.
Let’s make it clear again. Everyone has an opinion. However, we usually forget the fact that we still have the choice. The problem lies when we seek approval from the opinions of others when in fact we should be seeking approval from ourselves. Are we doing this for them or for us? If it’s for them, that would be a slippery slope to feel more inferior. We can’t satisfy society. We’ll get praised and cursed at the same time. We don’t have to please anybody. We sometimes worry on what other people think. But who will worry about what we think? It should be us.
We have to pivot and start looking at ourselves. Living a life in search of other’s approval is no life at all. Everyone is trying to figure it all out. Let us not be busy trying to figure out somebody’s way of living a good life. We have to live our own life discover what we truly deserve.
I want to share this to you since this reminds me that we always have a choice. This blog may not be for you but I know, you have a friend that might need this. You just don’t know, you could give value to others with a simple share. You’ll never know, this might pop up in someone’s endless feed and be of use. Cheers!
