Should

Should we go back?

Artist who can’t draw

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When does the word should ever end. We literally use this word to depict the anxiety of our insecurity and misinterpretation of life. Maybe the term must be used when one has figured everything out, which is humanly impossible.

We should go to school,to church, to the movies e.t.c

This is just the dizziness of being productive. And what is productivity?

Being spiritually or physically aware ?

The physical being your biological existence. I should look pretty, wear pretty clothes. When does the term end?

The spiritual being: I should go to church , convert to Christianity or Islam.

Now the question arises?

Where is the phoenix in all this? I mean should sort of hinders with creativity ,the coming back.

For us to recognize the importance of life we need to get rid of should.

I recently went through a relationship where my partner cheated on me. Guess what, I should forgive her. Should is just a lazy term in most scenarios and in my view takes away the whole notion of the heroes journey. The is no profound experience to be found in using the term should.

She is forgiven.

Existence depends on the social constructs we structure, which in turn they are heavily influenced by the environment.

I Should have been happy.

Imagen using this term some years from now or more likely in your death bed. Not so attractive. So should is lazy and hinders with your experience of life.

You can see my work here www.codeincoporated.co.za

I’d like to know your thoughts, Lets talk.

Vuyo Slim Kati Ngobese

Founder of code inc and Chairperson @The_Yalm. Philanthropist also an advocate for cognitive ecstasy.

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