Intrested challange: How to win friends and Influence people.

Asking other people questions about their lives, their interests, their passions is a surefire way to get brownie points in their friendship books. People are egocentric they love to talk about themselves. If you’re asking questions and getting people to talk about themselves, they’ll leave the conversation thinking you’re the coolest. Even if the conversation didn’t really give the other person a reason to like you, he or she will think better of you subconsciously just for indulging this or her ego. The interested challenge totally changed my way of thinking that how to make friends, so i adapted the way that told by Sir Dale Carnegie

The only way we can get a person to do anything is by giving them what they want. What do most people want?

The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated. The secret to winning friends and influencing people is not to ask, for either but rather to earn it by being a real person, who adds thoughtful comments to their life. We tend to take the people in our lives for granted so often that we neglect to let them know that we appreciate them. We must be careful to keep in mind the difference between appreciation and flattery, which seldom works with discerning people, as it is shallow, selfish and insincere.

Flattery comes from the tongue; appreciation comes from the heart.

We must be careful to keep in mind the difference between appreciation and flattery, which seldom works with discerning people, as it is shallow, selfish and insincere. This can ruin your relationships.

Six Ways to Make People Like You

1 :- Become genuinely interested in other people.

2:- Smile.

3:- Remember that a person’s name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

4:- Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

5:- Talk in terms of the other person’s interest.

6:- Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.

It is good to think that by implementing these techniques, we’ll always get the outcome we desire. If we increase our success by a mere 10%, we have become 10% more effective as leaders than we were before. So we have to adapt these techniques to make more friends.

With practice, it will become even more natural to apply these principles every day, and soon we will be masters of the art of human relations.