Punishment Type 1:
This isn’t what I wanted
Why didn’t you work hard
Why didn’t you work longer
Couldn’t you be more rigorous
This is wrong
You are wrong
Punishment Type 2:
You have let me down. I trusted you
Guess which of the two is the easy path?
Guess which of the two is the right path?
Don’t tell people they are wrong. They know that.
Instead tell them how you didn’t expect them to be wrong.
And tomorrow they won’t be anymore!