“My Friends My Brands

WaŞîįì SB
Sep 7, 2018 · 4 min read

“A relationship with a best friend is like a sugarcane... You can crush it, shred it, grind it, squeeze it and it’s still sweet”

I usually make friends easily, so I have a lot of friends – schoolmates, neighbours, relatives. I can’t imagine my life without them. But there are someone, whom I’ll always be keep on the first place in my heart. They are called my brands. A billionaire is the most poor personality if he has not a single good friend. I have set three places for my friends.

1) Those friends who are very special for me.

2) Those who are important in some cases and are not consider important in many cases.

3) Those who want to have a sincere friendship with me but I give them a bit importance.

In reality friendships are among the trickiest relationships out there. As hard as it may be to find romantic love, it’s arguably even more difficult to pick a new pal who we really connect with and to keep in touch with buddies from the past. But that’s no reason to resign ourselves to a lifetime of solitude, especially since having friends is tremendously important for our health and happiness.

The causes of modern social problems, from divorce to homelessness and obesity, are often thought to be based in areas such as poverty, stress or unhappiness. But researchers suggest we are overlooking something crucial: friendship. It would appear that our society is ignoring its importance.

The philosopher Aristotle said, “In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. They keep the young out of mischief; they comfort and aid the old in their weakness, and they incite those in the prime of life to noble deeds.” Friendships are vital for wellbeing, but they take time to develop and can’t be artificially created. No wonder they are at risk of being neglected.

Nevertheless, the Gallup Organization’s director, Tom Roth, believes that we are all aware of the value of friendship especially during difficult times. In his book, Vital Friends: The People You Can’t Afford To Live Without, Roth makes the point that if you ask people why they became homeless, why their marriage failed or why they overeat, they often say it is because of the poor quality, or nonexistence, of friendships. They feel outcast or unloved.

Roth undertook a massive study of friendship, alongside several leading researchers. His work resulted in some surprising statistics: “If your best friend eats healthily, you are five times more likely to have a healthy diet yourself. Married people say friendship is more than five times as important as physical intimacy within marriage”. Those who say they have no real friends at work have only a one in 12 chance of feeling engaged in their job. Conversely, if you have a “Best friend at work”, you are seven times more likely to feel engaged in your job.

These are the thoughts of some known personalities who realized the feelings of friendship and wrote these memorable words for such a Devine relationship. Before reading all these arguments I have already stumped that “ My Friends My Brands”.
Being a good friend isn’t always easy, but taking the time to nurture a lasting friendship is worth every ounce of effort. Cultivating meaningful and lasting friendships enrich life immensely.

Good friendships provide us strength, happiness, and meaning in ways that social media or striving for popularity cannot. All true friendships are built on mutual trust and support. So whether you’re looking to make new, quality friendships or improve your existing ones, there are mindsets that you can adopt and actions that you can take to be a good friend to others.

There are some tips which we should follow for a best friendship:

1) Keep your promises

2) Be dependable

3) Apologize when you have made a mistake

4) Be honest

5) Be loyal

6) Be respectful

“If you want others to like you, if you want to develop real friendships, if you want to help others at the same time as you help yourself, keep this principle in mind”.(Dale Carnegie)

Principle 1: Become genuinely interested in other people. "We are interested in others when they are interested in us.”

At the last very best of luck and divine wishes for everyone for a long live friendship.

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