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Sometimes, it means being lonely because we know for certain that it’s better to sit with our loneliness than to use other people as a balm against it, knowing that they aren’t for us. It means choosing to focus on ourselves and what we can do to enrich our own lives rather than focusing outward on relationships that could give us only a substitute for true happiness.
In research by the Journal of Clinical Psychology, approximately 54% of people who resolve to change their ways fail to make the transformation last beyond six months, and the average person makes the same life resolution 10 times over without success.
Here’s the deal: sometimes things suck. We all have bouts of loneliness, sadness, frustration, anger, pettiness, and all those little dirty bits that make us human. There are plenty of times when the only thing you want to do is scream, fight, and knock some sense into some happy, no-need-to-worry-everything-is-chill sad sack. There are also times when you don’t even want to hear that it’s okay to feel however you feel because you don’t want to turn some feeling you don’t want to have into something that’s positive or okay.