Cathy Whitaker
Sep 7, 2018 · 2 min read
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The key to a successful life

We are all familiar with how to become successful. One works their way up the ladder and presto they are successful. But what about all the things that happen in between the steps up the ladder? How did that person do it? Did good old work ethics get them there? Did they apply conventional wisdom to get there and just work hard and do whats right?

In my experience as a wife, business owner and mother. The only time I was thriving was when I was growing. Focus is key to any outcome your desire. Some of my worst days in life were without focus. One easily falls by the wayside in society when they lose grip with their focus.

There are 3 steps to maintaining focus in your life.

1 Daily turn your negative thoughts into positive thoughts. We are all human, we have the default button of self sabotage. We can be hard on ourselves. Always recognize this for what it is and keep it in check!

2 Go for a walk, run or whatever exercise you are capable of doing. There are so many benefits to getting your blood circulating and fresh air into your lungs.

3 Remind yourself of your goal and evaluate how you intend on getting there. As you make progress your steps will change. Daily practice gratitude in whatever situation you find yourself in. Its developing you into the person you are and refining you for the person you hope to be.

Stay on course, stay focused! You’ll arrive at your destination much quicker.

Cat Whitaker

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