Nikita, you may have seen the movie My Cousin Vinny. There’s a scene at the very end where Joe Pesci closes the argument, and kisses his girlfriend’s hands three times saying Thank You Thank You Thank You. I feel like that. You deserve to be appointed the Empress of the Universe. Not tng has actually changed, but just the fact that someone who is not another male ‘gets’ it makes me so fundamentally joyous.