I used to think this way… let me ask you, how much experience do you have in groups of more than ~50 people with kicking out assholes? Was the group democratically-run, or were you the “dictator,” or was it a loose community sort of group without formal leadership? How did the kicking-out go down? Have you ever run an event or conference? Have you ever felt unsafe (like really afraid for your health) at an event or within a group?