When I wrote about being called fat, there were a very few people for whom my essay was upsetting because they did not regard me as sufficiently fat.
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This sort of thing infuriates me, and it’s why I wrote “Just Because You Make A Thing About You Doesn’t Mean It’s About You” in response to a person who said I was fat-shaming them when I talked about how I wanted to lose weight. For the record: I was not talking about anyone other than myself.