10 things- And you have found your perfect man!
1) ALWAYS LISTENS
He is all ears to everything you want to share with him. He never accuses you of being boring or naïve. You can always share all your problems or dreams with him and he will pay close attention to everything you’ve got to say. Having someone to listen to us, lessens half the burden. And a good boyfriend does just that.
2) YOU ARE COMFORTABLE AROUND HIM
Be it your denim shorts or the oldest pair of pajamas, you are clad in comfort around him. You never are self-conscious about your hair or sandals in front of the right man. You are always at ease with yourself and never have to fear about his judgment. He can always see beyond your messy hair and smudged eyeliner. He is best at making you feel beautiful. You can make ugly faces at him and look like a ball of dirt; you will know that won’t make him love you any less.
3) HE MAKES YOU A PART OF HIS LIFE
You know you are a part of his daily life. Every major decision he takes in his life has your involvement and participation. He never keeps you in the shade. He tells you what he wants and calculates the pros and cons of doing it, with you by his side. All that concerns him calls for your suggestions too.
4) NEVER MAKES YOU JEALOUS
He gives you no reason to feel jealous of the other females in his life. He places you before anyone and is never afraid to let people know that he belongs to you. If anything, he only makes other girls jealous about the gem of a man you’ve got. Despite all the inbuilt possessiveness that you tag along, deep inside your lovesick heart, you know he is not going anywhere.
5) MUCH MORE THAN ROMANCE
It is not always about giving flowers, dinner dates or making out. He takes your sick and smelly self to the hospital, reminds you of tablets, calls to wake you up in time, gives reminders about tasks you keep forgetting and helps you choose dresses. He cares for you like a parent, understands your flaws and embraces your strengths as well as weaknesses. His actions reflect genuine concern and you know you are in right hands. His endeavors shout trustworthiness and utmost love.
6) YOU ARE A PRIORITY
He makes you a priority amidst all his busy schedules and social circle. You never feel left out of his life and routine. He remembers your special dates, makes time for you and ensures your happiness. You are a priority; a well-defined one that too.
7) HE IS READY FOR A FIGHT
He never takes a back seat from the strain of arguments and discussions. He is ready to fight rather than leave you with bottled up insecurities and fears. He listens to your complaints, lists his complaints and endures all the time that is needed to have the problem sorted out. He talks to you and figures out the solution. You can never go to bed angry or upset with this man.
8) HE IS A TEACHER AND A LEARNER
He teaches you all that he has experienced and known from life. You never have to feel ashamed about not knowing something in front of him. He will always be your guideline and support. Nevertheless, he will always be up for learning from you. You help each other grow in many healthy ways.
9) HE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND
He is not just a boyfriend but the best of all friends. You feel as close and comfortable with him as you would with a best friend you’ve known for long. There is so much to be made fun about but nothing to be embarrassed about. He is a babyhood friend whose companionship you’ll never be bored of. You have met the soul mate in him.
10) YOUR DREAMS ARE HIS
He shares your dreams and envisions it with you. With him, you are always moving a step closer towards your ambitions. He encourages you in whatever that you are passionate about and survives the whole process of accomplishments by your side. You are at your best performance when he is there for you!

Originally published at wittyrumours.com.
