ahh the compatibility of incompatibility. Would that more people would understand this. It’s like video game nerds who only search for other video game nerds. As if having in common a shared love of Anime is the most important feature in a mate.
It isn’t. You can be into someone and not share the same interests. My sisters aren’t into the aspects of nerd culture that I am. But if a dude was cool with them they could date a nerdy guy. The respect is the important part. I’ve seen posts from guys who fear if they don’t date a girl into the same hobby as them they won’t be allowed to collect comic books anymore. You don’t need to find a girl equally into comic books as you. You just need to find one who doesn’t mind that you are who you are.
She can be into board games, and I can be into gardening. We don’t have to obsess over the same things. We just have to respect each other’s obsession.