Want To Know Important Secrets About Cuckolding That No One Ever Talks About in Porn?

Crystal Welch
12 min readMar 5, 2022

I would speculate the vast majority discover cuckoldry in porn. But if that is your only exposure, how do you authentically learn what it is, how to navigate it and how to find the joy in it? Hint: It will NOT be in porn.

There is a huge upswing in the numbers of people researching “cuckoldry” on porn sites these days. I looked into why that is, and one primary reason is the upswing in the numbers of women who want to take control of their own pleasure and sex lives.

I’ve been in a successful Cuck relationship for eight years and started writing and podcasting about the experience over the last year. Holy cow. I was shocked at how much misunderstanding in the general public, right along with a ferocious interest in it. It’s time to blow up some significant misconceptions and set the record straight.

Before I begin, please note that my ideas and practices are born out of long-time REAL experience, not just theory. Also, the ideas I share are what made cuckoldry the most satisfying, intimate, loving relationship imaginable. Our way is for us, and each couple will find what works for them. I hope to help you navigate the bullshit so you CAN find your own way and be successful.

When it comes to cuckolding, you have to see it for what it is, rather than what you think it is. In other words, be open to real-life experience from a perspective based on actually experimenting, rather than what you “think” it is.

Take the time to learn. There are hundreds, if not thousands of blogs, podcasts, books and articles on the dynamic. Read or listen, communicate, and go slow.

There is an old saying that is profoundly true of cuckoldry: “EVERYTHING IS ABOUT SEX EXCEPT SEX. SEX IS ABOUT POWER”

I define cuckoldry as: “A man who willingly encourages his wife to engage sexually with other men, without jealousy, cheating, or lying.” Therefore, I do not consider cuckoldry adultery, as it is devoid of a betrayal of trust, envy, or neglect.”

My husband and I deeply believe all people have competing needs in a relationship: the need for safety and security and the need for change and adventure. For us, cuckoldry perfectly solves…