How To Balance Impatience With Long Term Goals
I’m Going To Have a Novel Published
This isn’t an announcement, just a public declaration of my goals.
I saw a post by Gary Vaynerchuk this morning that said
The bigger your ambition, the slower you need to go.
Man, that hit me.
I’m not a very patient person. In general, this means I act on things quickly, which is a positive. When it comes to writing, I write incredibly fast: I wrote my last novel in 31 days. I did the first edit in 3 days. I want to move, move, move.
So it’s good to remind myself that this is a pretty big goal. I’ve had it for 20 years — after I wrote my first novel at the tender age of 15.
So how do I balance my impatience with a need to always be moving forward? As much as I’d like to say “If I can write a rough draft in 30 days, I should be outputting 10–12 rough drafts a year,” I don’t think that’s the answer.
I used to think that if I can write super fast, I should just write as many novels as possible.
But I’m past that phase. I know a lot earlier in the process whether a novel is going to work out or not. I can make wiser decisions on how to spend my time.
I spent my 20s writing over a million words a year. I’ve done my practicing.
1. Diversify Projects
Most of the common advice is to focus on your goal. If I want to get a book published, all of my creative work time should be devoted to it.
I can’t. Maybe that’s smart advice, but it doesn’t work for me. I get bored. I get burned out. So I do multiple projects at once.
I have one podcast, I’m developing another, I’m developing an online course, practicing vlogging, and writing articles for Medium.
Is that too many projects?
2. 1% Moves
The reason I feel okay with doing so many projects is that I know I’m making forward progress on all of them. It might be just a 1% improvement toward the goal each week, but it’s still 1 more percent than I had before.
Most people don’t even do that.
I organize my time and evaluate my progress on everything every week. I’m always moving forward.
The bigger the ambition the slower you have to go. I guess my ambition is to be good at ALL of my projects.
1% moves are fine.
It settles my impatience.
I’m a happier person.
And I get to have a really cool, long bio.
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