I’ve never asked a woman that question in my life, it’s irrelevant to me. My main concern is that she does not have an STD. Obviously, your date shouldn’t have asked the question, he may be a socially awkward guy or he was so drunk and he didn’t care. My body count is enough for three lifetimes. It is what it is. Why did his question hit such a nerve with you? It obvious from you essay that it upset you.