You got the pussy, you control the sex game
There is nothing as getting pregnant by accident, unless you were raped or your family planning method failed (rare case) don’t dare say , “ ni bahati mbaya” (it happened by mistake) .
Sex is for making babies and pleasure. Choose one. Why cant you say you had good sex by mistake?
No man can make any woman expectant by mistake. She knows her dates, safe days and bad days, morning after pills, she has a voice to say no.
All you have to do is make it clear you don’t want babies. Ladies are afraid of being open about it, thinking they will make the guy to run to the hill. Make it a mutual agreement. Non of you wants babies, then work towards having sex for pleasure . How is he supposed to know you are not safe if you don’t talk?
You want it raw, get tested, get a family planning method. That’s all it takes.
Its time ladies make some effort in having safe sex and preventing unwanted pregnancies. Don’t have a baby because he wants to. You have a baby because you are ready to!
I don’t even understand how any lady out there can possibly be afraid to say no babies, during such crucial economic times.
Accidental pregnancies don’t exist. You have the power to choose to be pregnant or not. As I said you got the cookie, you control the game.
