Multiple Orgasms for Women
Intimacy With Herself
A woman friend told me that women love being intimate with themselves, and have amazing solo sex. I’d been reading about Tantra in a book by Christopher Walis and others. Only a few of Tantra’s thousands of pages involve sex. But for today’s women, this tiny ‘fragment’ is a marvellous opportunity.
Her Body is Elegant
Tantric teaches that a woman’s body is holy, a thing of beauty and wonder. This perspective exists nowhere else in the world. I find that a beautiful tenet, and very easy to adapt.
The Tantric goal is total relaxation into an orgasmic state of mind. It’s semi-meditative and erotic at the same time.
Relaxing Her Mind and Body
Her intimacy with herself allows her a fully relaxed & calm mindset. She persues tension and releases it, while being quite aware of her deep desire for eroticism.
A modern woman longing for deeply intimate sex would arrange her hair, makeup, jewelry, lotion, perfume — or whatever makes her feel her own inner sexuality.
Atmosphere
She closes blinds or drapes, no outside light, carefully arranges candles, scented oils or incense, and low volume appropriate music. Shadows move sensually.
Her bed is gracefully arranged for comfort. Mild intoxicants like a glass of wine and a touch of cannabis elevate eroticism nicely.
Arousal
Her hands flow slowly, lovingly across her entire body, upper and lower, teasing herself, while she whispers ‘I need it bad.’
Her legs open to a beautiful and hungry vagina. A mirror there would give her a spectacular visual.
She slowly guides a lotioned finger between her open legs, seeing her hand slowly approach her clitoris, sees the visual, places her finger lightly on her clitoris … and leaves it there.
It is electrifying! 10,000 nerve endings. Surging sexual hunger is released all over body and mind. She becomes vocal.
Urgency
She begins to stroke her vagina, her hips thrusting. She is lost in blazing, wild solo sex. She is pleading, overcome, focused on orgasm, an overpowering, pounding, screaming orgasm which holds her close during explosive frenzy, wave after wave of pumping orgasmic ecstasy, thrashing on her bed, still coming, still coming, begging for more.
Sources
Tantric Orgasm for Women — Diana Richardson.
Becoming Cliterate — Laurie Mintz, PhD
Tantra Illuminated — Christopher D. Wallis
Cleveland Clinic, various studies
(Beware “Tantra” sites online, they are pure clickbait and want money)
