Excellent point! Sexy is not just about looks. I think attitude, confidence or demeanor plays a greater role in being sexy than how a person looks.
For a long time I didn’t believe that I could ever be considered sexy. The main problem for me is when I was growing up, I couldn’t go anywhere without someone telling me how much I looked like “Punky Brewster” or asking me if I was actually her (Soliel Moon Frye). I was the cute freckled girl. I figured sexy would never be a part of my vocabulary. I eventually learned that being sexy is dependent on many things other than looks. It has to do with perspective (one person’s sexy is another person’s…) It has to do with how a person speaks, moves, dresses, carries themself. It is a person’s mannerisms and certain things that a person might do.
Sexiness is not exclusive to the “beautiful people” so nobody should sell themself short because if you believe you are not sexy, you will appear not sexy.