Ok Deborah Foster , I have been reading all through the comments to this and I am fascinated. I have many questions. I think I have somewhat of an understanding of what you’re saying and I watched the videos, but of course there are things I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around, I think mainly because it’s difficult to get past years of learning a hardwired definition of racism in order to see it differently. But I am eager to explore this. Unfortunately I will have to come back to this topic, if you are interested in having this dicussion with me (not sure if you’re over it after seeing some of the comments) but today was the first day of school for three kids and I have a ton of paperwork to fill out so I can’t devote the time this deserves at this moment.