I never said that a man defending himself equates to him being physically abusive. That is pure reflection. A person defending themselves is not being abusive and I don’t care what their genders, ages, or anything else about them
Never attempt to deliberately restrain someone fighting you. Please.
Douglas Milnes

Yes, you said that I was basically saying that men should be as violent in response to a woman’s violence because of their superior strength and that I was promoting violence against women. Since I never said anything of the sort, I guess that would be pure reflection on your part, not mine.