but men cannot.
Because when it comes to bearing children, women can make any choice they want but men cannot.
Sumant Manne

You do have condoms where you come from, right. Birth control is an individual responsibility. If a man doesn’t want to risk being a father, he needs to protect himself and not rely on the woman. Even if she claims to be on birth control. Problem is most men complain about loss of feeling or that condoms don’t always work. Well I bet the loss of feeling isn’t nearly as bad as the feeling of paying for an unplanned child. And no, they don’t always work but it is still far wiser to at least give it a chance to work than the alternative.

Your argument here denies any culpability on a man’s part for birth control and places it all on the woman. What a cop-out.