“The Little Prince”: Inspiring the Journey of Mutual Growth

Self development Author
5 min readMay 21, 2023

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Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s enchanting tale, The Little Prince, might be wrapped in the whimsy of a children’s book, yet it unfolds profound wisdom that captivates the hearts and minds of adults worldwide. Its simple yet profound narrative houses transformative insights that inspire mutual growth. In this reflective journey, we’ll explore how this timeless masterpiece propels us towards shared development.

Having read The Little Prince numerous times, I’m continuously moved by the evocative poetry nestled within its pages. My first encounter with this tale was at the tender age of eight. Back then, the allure lay in Saint-Exupéry’s magical universe — the young prince, distinctive in his green clothing and blond hair, his scarf dancing with the wind, was an unforgettable character. As an adult, I revisit this book to glean its resonating messages of mutual improvement and love, which subtly yet powerfully inform our approach to personal growth.

Source: Book cover of The Little Prince

Unraveling the Depth of “The Little Prince”

The Little Prince invites us into the journey of a young, interstellar voyager who departs his home to explore the universe, eventually finding himself on Earth. A significant lesson from this novella is the importance of seeing beneath the surface, of perceiving beyond what meets the eye. The tale artfully intertwines themes like life, love, and friendship into its narrative, providing the fertile ground where seeds of mutual improvement can take root.

The Little Prince’s cherished rose, demanding yet delicate, symbolizes the love and patience we must cultivate for personal growth and in fostering relationships. As the Prince learns to love his rose for its invisible qualities, we are inspired to appreciate and value the unseen virtues in others.

Recognizing Mutual Improvement in “The Little Prince”

Valuing Diversity: The Little Prince & The Rose

While reflecting on The Little Prince, I find myself contemplating the nature of love — is it a sudden infatuation or something requiring constant nurturing?

The bond between the Little Prince and his Rose embodies the significance of appreciating diversity, a cornerstone of mutual improvement. At first, the Prince misconstrues the Rose’s needs as vanity, but through his interplanetary encounters, he learns to value her unique beauty. This lesson informs us of the importance of understanding and respecting differences as we strive towards mutual growth.

“It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important,” says the Little Prince. His commitment to his rose symbolizes the investment we make in ourselves and those we care about. In the context of mutual growth, it’s the time ‘wasted’ — spent learning, failing, reflecting, and supporting one another — that truly enriches our relationships and individuality.

Just as the Little Prince gained wisdom from his relationships, so too can we learn from the people we encounter. They carry diverse experiences and wisdom, much like the characters the Prince met during his travels. It’s through understanding and learning from these interactions that we truly grow.

Source: A still from the 2015 film “The Little Prince” directed by Mark Osborne, based off Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s book by the same name.

Maintaining Openness: The Little Prince & The Boa

One of the first life lessons presented in the book comes from the Prince’s drawing of a boa constrictor. Adults, failing to understand it, illustrate our frequent inability to see beyond the obvious and embrace different perspectives. This analogy serves as a reminder of the importance of maintaining curiosity, creativity, and open-mindedness — key elements that nourish mutual growth.

Source: An Illustration of the Boa and the Elephant in the Little Prince English Book version

Building Relationships: The Little Prince & The Fox

One relationship that left an indelible impression on me was the friendship between the Little Prince and the Fox. It reminded me that every relationship, though different, fosters our growth in unique ways. As one relationship transforms us, we, in turn, enhance our other relationships, carrying their influence within us. The joy and positivity we receive from one connection often permeate all our other relationships.

“What is essential is invisible to the eye,” the Fox proclaims, encapsulating the essence of personal development versus mutual growth. This wisdom encourages us to recognize the unseen efforts of those around us, enriching our relationships and deepening our mutual growth.

The Fox, through his lessons of ‘taming’ or establishing deep connections, exemplifies relationship cultivation. This wisdom parallels the concept of mutual growth, where individuals ‘tame’ each other by dedicating time, understanding, and building mutual trust.

Source: A still from the 2015 film “The Little Prince” directed by Mark Osborne, based off Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s book by the same name.

Upholding Commitment: The Little Prince & The Lamplighter

The last character I want to highlight is the Lamplighter, a minor yet impactful figure who reminded me of the small daily efforts that keep our world spinning and relationships thriving.

The Lamplighter, though seemingly performing a futile task of lighting and extinguishing his lamp as his planet spins rapidly, diligently carries out his duty, embodying commitment and responsibility. These qualities serve as pillars in our shared journey towards mutual growth.

His dedication, despite the repetitiveness, reflects the importance of maintaining our responsibilities, no matter how challenging they may be. This commitment contributes to a collective culture of accountability, vital for mutual growth, building trust, respect, and facilitating shared improvement.

Source: The Lamplighter in “The Little Prince” — 2019 Poland version by Tomasz Pląskowski

Gleaning Lessons for Our Shared Journey

The Little Prince shares timeless wisdom about mutual growth through its captivating narrative:

  • Valuing Diversity: The Little Prince’s acceptance of the Rose’s uniqueness teaches us the significance of embracing diverse perspectives on our mutual growth journey.
  • Building Relationships: The interactions between the Prince and the Fox inspire us to forge meaningful relationships that can enhance mutual growth.
  • Upholding Commitment: The Lamplighter’s dedication and consistency underscores the importance of upholding our commitments to ensure mutual improvement.

The tale of The Little Prince illustrates how personal growth is a shared odyssey rather than a solitary venture. It highlights how an accountable partner is more than a number keeper — they are a person to love, care for, and aspire to see grow.

As Saint-Exupéry beautifully articulates in The Little Prince, “What is essential is invisible to the eye.” The ‘essential’ we often overlook is the mutual growth we foster with those around us.

So, let’s embark on this journey of shared growth, drawing inspiration from each other every step of the way!

And remember…

Together, we grow.

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