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Don’t Rush Matters of the Heart
Love and Marriage: Why Patience is Key to Finding Lasting Happiness
People often seem really rushed when it comes to relationships.
Maybe their parents are pushing them to get married, or they feel like they’re getting old. They see everyone around them getting married, and they feel like they’re falling behind. So they want to speed things up. They don’t want to be left behind.
They always seem so anxious. They regret not looking sooner. They just want to find someone quickly so they can get married and settle down.
It’s normal to feel worried about still being single at a certain age. You want to get out of that situation fast.
It’s okay to have some negative feelings, but you can’t let yourself get completely out of control.
You need to calm yourself down. Don’t keep dwelling on it. And don’t make a big deal out of being single.
Love just can’t be rushed. You can’t force it.
Rushing Makes You Vulnerable
A woman was almost thirty, and she was super anxious. She really wanted to get married before she turned thirty.
Then, she met a guy. She thought he was pretty good in every way. So she really…
