PinnedMember-only“Good Vibes only” is the favorite phrase of Racist Ass WomenSpiritual Bypassing and why is it so violent? — Please scroll down to see the entire article! https://ko-fi.com/indiadorada White women have the space to talk about whatever they want. If you want to talk about crystal, you have the space to do so. You want to talk about men raping women, you have a space for that. You want…Feminism4 min readFeminism4 min read
PinnedMember-onlyThere is no such thing as “Migrants crossing the border illegally”Us Cities playing the victim on ancestral migration — Please scroll down to see the entire article! I lose my cool every time I listen to USA news. For White North Americans, this will be painful to read. But let’s be honest, the great children of the colonial settlers are still in Abya Yala and Turtle Island (Latin America…Migrants4 min readMigrants4 min read
PinnedMember-onlyMadonna, you are old, get over it!You are not a victim of patriarchy and ageism! You are a victim of poor judgment, bad decisions, and a lot of plastic surgery. I’m sorry dear! — If Madonna was my mom I would be so embarrassed by her. https://ko-fi.com/indiadorada No Grandma, nobody is attacking you because of the Patriarchy and Ageism. Be real, don't act like a fucking victim. Take responsibility for your actions and the way you decide to think!! You are a multimillionaire…Women5 min readWomen5 min read
PinnedMember-onlyMy husband’s gay co-worker texted him “Good Morning, Princess”Triangulation, distance, and tension caused by an intruder in my marriage — Please scroll down to see the entire article! https://ko-fi.com/indiadorada This happened like 2 months ago and I didn’t find out from my husband. I was looking for this guy’s number on his phone to add him to my phone in case I needed to contact him in case of an…Marriage4 min readMarriage4 min read
PinnedMember-onlyCan people stop saying Native Americans came from Asia or anywhere else?The Bering Strait theory is an evil attempt to strip autonomy, identity, and ownership of this land from Native Americans — I didn’t come from anywhere else. My ancestors were already here when the Europeans arrived. My ancestors were already in Abya Yala way before anybody else arrived on our land. White-washed history has been spread and repeated thousands of times, so I understand that you now think I came from…Writing4 min readWriting4 min read
4 days agoMember-onlyDo you also feel uncomfortable when people are rude to service people?I feel like I want to stab my own knee of how embarrassed I feel — Please scroll down to see the entire article! https://ko-fi.com/indiadorada My friend looked at the waiter with a dead look on his face, saying to me “Nevermind, I do not want anything”. This Vietnamese waiter speaks a little bit of English but not much, of course, he is not understand what…Classism3 min readClassism3 min read
5 days agoMember-onlyIt’s common for Latinos to call me “Little black girl” even though I am not blackThe normalization of anti-indigeneity in Latin America and the erasure of Native Americans in Paradise — Please scroll down to see the entire story! https://ko-fi.com/indiadorada Y usted, en que le puedo ayudar, negrita? What about you, what can I do for you, Little black girl? “Did he just call you “Little black lady”? …Latin America4 min readLatin America4 min read
6 days agoMember-onlyDo you also feel uncomfortable with silence?Why does silence makes us feel so uneasy? — Please scroll down to see the entire story! https://ko-fi.com/indiadorada I noticed this just recently, when I am with people I know the silence between us when we are in the same room hits me like a truck. It is especially true when I am around my husband or close friends…Psychology3 min readPsychology3 min read
May 25Member-onlyMy husband’s straight co-worker called me a “Whore”Because I was defending a girl from him — Please scroll down to see the entire story! https://ko-fi.com/indiadorada We were at the Pool Party this month. And I saw this guy spinning a 22-year-old in a floating swan, like crazy. I was trying to ignore that and I just looked away but I could not ignore the fact that…Feminism4 min readFeminism4 min read
May 24Member-onlyA stranger online called my husband “A narcissist”How dare you? What is wrong with people? — Please scroll down to see the entire story! https://ko-fi.com/indiadorada “Yeah, so your husband is a narcissist because I say so, I hope you have a good day, byeeeee” Haha, Whaat? I received a message like this some weeks ago when I posted a story about how my husband and I…Couples3 min readCouples3 min read
